Discussing the birds and the bees<\/p>\n
Most parents dread having “the talk” with their child. Parents typically aren’t sure where to begin, don’t know what to say or how to say it, and are just downright uncomfortable discussing the birds and the bees with their child. But just because the conversation is uncomfortable doesn’t mean it shouldn’t take place.<\/p>\n
The topic is sure to be uncomfortable for the child as well, but research shows that children and teens actually wish their parents would openly talk with them about sex more than they do.<\/p>\n
Here are some tips to get you started:<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Use truthful, useful and age appropriate information. If you are unsure how to answer a particular question, do some research and get back with your child when the information is found.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Begin the discussion sooner, rather than later, because kids develop questions over time. Also, gradual conversations are less overwhelming for all involved than one big talk. Many smaller conversations also allow the parent to become a trusted source of information.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Avoid ignoring the subject, and take advantage of teachable opportunities whenever they present themselves.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Know when your child’s school will be covering reproductive health, and what will be taught. Be sure to ask your child what they learned and if they have any questions.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 To help relieve tension, state verbally that the conversation may be awkward before you begin.<\/p>\n
\u00b7 Listen to the child even if you disagree, and be open to all questions.<\/p>\n